Criminal Wants Prison Instead Of His Wife

How bad is your marraige or home life when you choose prison over your wife?  For a 32 year old Italian man, bad enough, since he chose to spend his sentence there instead of home-monitoring with his, apparently, nagging lady at home, after being charged with drug dealing last Tuesday!

You can catch the rest of the story here, but I've just got two questions:

TO THE GUYS: What's made a relationship or marraige so aweful you'd rather spend your days in an 8x10 cell than with your other half?

TO THE LADIES: Would you be happy or insulted if your man would rather isolate himself than be with you for nagging him about his stupidity?